Coming out is a constant internal and external process that can sometimes be met with pain, misunderstanding, and hardship. Members of the LGBTQ population “come out” in many different ways to many different groups. In addition the coming out process can look different for each individual and sometimes an individual can come out without even noticing. Not to mention the coming out process is continual, because the LGBTQ population is an “invisible minority,” meaning that you cannot recognize LGBTQ individuals by the way they look. Because of they are an “invisible minority” this population may find themselves coming out every time they make a new friend, start a new job, or take a class. In any situation it is important to know the risks and benefits to coming out to others. Below are just a few risks and benefits
commonly experienced by the LGBTQ population:

Some Risks of Coming Out

• Not everyone will be understanding or accepting.
• Some relationships with friends, family members, or co-workers may be permanently changed in negative ways, and you could end up losing some of this support system.
• Individuals under the age of 18 may be thrown out of their homes or lose financial support.
• Students may lose their financial support for school from their parent/guardian.
• An individual may experience harassment or discrimination based on their sexual orientation or gender identity. In many cases this harassment or discrimination has no legal protection, therefore an LGBTQ individual may be terminated from their job, denied housing, or denied insurance.

Some Benefits of Coming Out

• Individuals will have the ability to live their lives openly.
• Individuals may build up their self-esteem by being honest with themselves.
• Individuals may develop closer, more genuine relationships with new friends and family.
• Some relationships may be changed permanently in positive ways.
• Individuals may be able to connect more with individuals who identify as part of the LGBTQ population and become a part of the community.
• Individuals may alleviate the stress associated with “hiding” their identity or living their life “in the closet”.
• After coming out an individual may be able to change the common misconceptions about the LGBTQ population simply by speaking out and being open with others. The best way to change an individual’s mind is through a personal relationship.